Single or Mingle

When you were younger, either boy or girl, to one of them, they had coodies or just did not like them because they were the opposite gender. Then as you grow older in your teens, you start to understand the other gender a little bit more and start to grow feeling. For an example, a crush and being in a relationship consider as "puppy love". When you get older, you start to understand what a relationship really is.

Being single is consider to "living the life" because you have no one to hold you back. I would hear that from a lot of people that being single is the best way to go and especially when you're young. But at the same time, other people would say to me that being in a relationship is the way to go. Being in a relationship keeps you grounded and finding love is great. But then, the person that is single and saying being single is the way to go, he or she would at times get sad because he or she is not in a relationship. For some people that are in the relationship, they at times wish they were single at times. Both parties are telling me many different things about, single or being mingled. I'll give out of what I think which is better, being single or being in a relationship.

Single life is the "living the life" because you really do not have anybody holding you back hanging out with your friends at a party or just saying, "no" period. But I think being single is kind of lonely at times. Yeah you have your friends there but friends aren't always going to be there because they do have things to do. For family, yes family will always be there and will always love you but it's different from being loved by someone else like a girlfriend or boyfriend.

Being in a relationship to me is better than being single. O.K., I may be just bias because I'm in a relationship but it's because of that I think being in a relationship is better. Whenever I'm down, I know I can always call my partner to cheer me up or be there to just talk about it. Also, you don't have to worry about dates for events. Another thing is that you're being loved by someone else besides your friends and family but a different kind of love and care. Just holding hands and talking endlessly about random things. Growing a bond that is untouchable and talking about your future together is a warm fuzzy feeling.

Many people can argue with me on this topic and say that I'm wrong. But I don't blame them of saying I'm wrong or stuff because it's my opinion and there isn't really a right or wrong answer to this topic. I honestly believe it really depends on the person or people. In my opinion, I believe being in a relationship is better than being single. But the end of the day, I hope everybody will find love.